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My sister had sex with him. Is it wrong of me to be interested?

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Question - (12 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and am interested in an old flame. About 6 months ago he had sex with my sister. It was just a drunken night so is it okay for me to sleep with him also?? I have no bad feelings towards my sister or him for what they did. Im just curious if thats a line that should never be crossed... sleeping with someone my sister has already slept with.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntAre you interested in this old flame for a long term relationship? I would think that previous history would make this a bad bet but I don't know what you want.

I, personally, would not want to start up something with someone who had slept with my sister for any reason. Drunk or not, it offends my "ook" factor.

This guy would be filed under the "been there, done that" category, and I would think he'd be in the same filing cabinet as your sister...

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2008):

I have two sisters and the thought of sleeping with someone who had slept with either of them is not pleasant.

Someone who I dated for a while and then broke up with asked my sister for a date (about a year later) and she said no for the same reason.

I personally think it's a line you shouldn't cross - there are loads of blokes out there that haven't slept with your sister. I think you'd be better off with someone else.

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