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female
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writes:I really do need some help and advice. I am 23 and my sister is 19 who has just left to go into the Army. Before she left to go in the Army she had a boyfriend who she was with for three months. Since she has been in there they decided to not be together this was three months ago. This is where the issue comes in i have for the past three months been seeing him and we get on really well, it has all been undercover and i just dont know what to do about it. All the lies and sneaking around is driving me mad. We do really like each other a lot but just feel that it will upset too many people if we were to take it any further. I feel really deceiptful to my sister as this is her old boyfriend. Please help me and be honest. Thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Your sister gave up the relationship, you have done nothing wrong in seeing him, but at the same time i can also understand how you would feel that you have been disloyal.
If the relationship has been kept under wraps why not try sounding your sister out about it, you could tell her that you are interested in him and see what she says, where you go from there would be dependent on how you feel about her responce.
Take care.xx.
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