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writes: I think I messed up my relationship with my boyf.At first he was treating me more as a friend and I hated it but one day he put his arm around me and i pushed him off!I didnt say anything I just kindve pulled away.I think now he might be getting mixed messages.And questioning should we be going out.I want to make a move so that he knows i want to be with him but when it comes to it im too shy.What should i do?
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reader, --Nicki--  +, writes (2 July 2006):
 Hello
I don’t think you are the only one that is shy in your relationship. If you think about it he might have been treating you as a friend at first because he was shy too, it probably took him a lot of courage to put his arm around you. So I think you need to put the shyness away in a box, lock it up and thought the key away!
… Remember he’s all yours, there’s no reason to be shy and you both probably feel the same way about each other! Its your turn… pluck up some courage (as he did to put his arm around you) and just talk to him, let him know how you really feel about him, then see how things go from there.
I would do this sooner rather than later …you don’t want to lose this guy! I’m sure everything will turn out just fine… Have faith… You can do it!!!!
My Best Wishes
Nicki xx
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reader, Smiler +, writes (1 July 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Well there is nothing wrong with being a little shy :o) i agree with you i think he has mixed messages of whether your interested in a relationship with him, you need to clarify how you feel about things and whether you want things to go further i know your shy so why not send him a text message explaining cause your not face to face then are you this will help with shy factor or even write him a letter explaining everything and how you feel about him and where you see you two going give it to him and walk away :o) try to leave the ball in his court so if he contacts you after or tries to make a move you will know then he wants the same as you do, honey you need to try and come out of your shell a little don't be so shy don't hide your light under a bush... think to yourself this little light of mine I'm gonna let it shine... get out there enjoy your life with this guy and most of all have a Lotta fun together :o)
I hope my advice was of help to you in this situation :o) and good luck with it. If you ever need a friendly chat of shoulder to cry on or just more advice I'm always here for you
You Take Care X
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reader, sammie +, writes (1 July 2006):
 hya i think what you should do is pluk up the courage and sit down with him and talk to him just tell him exactly how you feel about him and what it is that you want out of the relationship let him no that you are abit shy and that is why you pulled away from him if you let him no exactly where he stands i think it should be ok hope this helps samx
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