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writes: hi guysHave a bit of a problem here. I split up with my ex b/f like 1 month a half ago... I was in a band with him. We had just found a bassist, who 2 weeks later became my current boyfriend. Anyways, during these two weeks that i split from my ex, me and my ex were on and off. During this time I took comfort in a male friend, he was there for me and supported me through this time. I had dated this male friend a year before hand. I ended up kissing him but we both agreed nothing could come of it. My reason was i had still had feelings for my ex. His reason was he was scared of his friends reactions. We still carried on seeing each other for a week in secret. Then I began hanging out with my new bassist and stopped hanging out with this guy friend. He seemed ok with this. Although last week we had an argument over what i had done (e.g sexually) with my new boyfriend. Then at my prom a few days later as he was going , he hugged me and whispered to me "i'll will definatly be visiting you" then went to kiss me, i turnt away however. One of my friends reckon she saw him go to kiss me, and another thinks he only did as turnt my head round towards him and he was going for my cheek untill then. Since then he has been trying to arrange for me and him to hang out together. Whenever i have said my boyfriend is here though he then makes up an excuse why he cant come out although untill he find out my boyfriend is here he is fine to hang out. I should also mention the prom was the last time he would see the friends he was worried about. I'm really confused about what this boy's intentions are and what to do about it. Any help and adivce is apprieciated.
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reader, Terrapin +, writes (2 July 2006):
 ah, you have two guys after you. The guy you are going out with, is he good to you? and friendly? If you feel for one more than the other then go with them and ask the guy you dont like as much to leave you alone. If you like your bf more, and you are happy with him, ask this other bloke to leave you alone. He sounds like a flirty two-faced horny teenager! personally I think you should stick by your bf and ignore any contact between you and this other guy, if he wouldnt go out with you because of his mates he cant think much of you.
Good luck in your decision and the future
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