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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a severe problem that I can't seem to get rid of. I have a very high sex drive and I hate it! It seems as though no matter how much me and my husband fool around, or how much I masturbate that I always feel like I'm horny and need to get off and it is beginning to sicken me. I can just have the best orgasm of my life and it feels like it's not enough. I hate feeling like this and I want to know if I can do anything to stop it? I feel like I'm going crazy!
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar +, writes (21 November 2011):
Pump iron. Thatll wear u out lol
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 November 2011):
Sounds to me like you have ADHD: Always Desparately Horny, Darling.....
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 November 2011):
Talk to your doctor about it. If your doctor doesn't come up with anything by herself (some doctors are a bit slow at coming up with helpful suggestions), look into birth control pills or the depo shot. Certain women react with a lack of interest in sex, or reduced interest in sex, when taking hormones (birth control pills are just hormones).
I found that birth control pills don't affect me, but the depo shot killed a bunch of my sex drive. I was eager to go every day, normally, now I'm currently on the depo shot (it lasts for 3 months) and I am satisfied with once a week, or less. I masturbate just about once a week as well, which is odd, I used to masturbate every other day or so. The depo shot definitely isn't for me, as I love my sex drive, but if it can kill my sex drive it probably can kill your sex drive as well. If it doesn't there are different birth control pills you can try, try one type for 3 months and then if nothing happens try another and so on.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2011):
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Is it the ORGASMS you crave or is it the AFFECTION?
I will tell you why I ask this:
I have a higher sex drive than my man... and yet I'm finding that lately it's NOT about the orgasms.. what I CRAVE is the affection.. the cuddles, the hugs, the kisses, the attention...
I can easily give myself an orgasm... but I cannot cuddle myself. I cannot kiss myself...
so are you missing the orgams or the affection...
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reader, Battista +, writes (21 November 2011):
Apart from your sex life, do you have a busy, active and full lifestyle from day to day? Ie. do you have plenty of other stuff to keep your mind off sex or do you have a lot of spare time? It's good to have a healthy sex drive for sure, but if it's beginning to upset you then obviously you need to think about what to do next. Are you at college or work?
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