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writes:I'm sure there are thousand posts like this one every day. Well here is where I am at...I'm worried that my relationship is losing it's luster. My girlfriend and I have only been together for a little over 6 months, but we both believe (or we talk about it) that we are truly going to get married in the future. We constantly tell eachother that we love eachother, and I certainly can't doubt how I feel. However, up until this past week, everything has seemed wonderful. We were seemingly more in love and definitely more romantic, there really wasn't anything that could tear us down. We are both in college and after a break things have just seemed different. She has gone on a couple new medications, and I suppose this is why libido dropped. I guess I just feel that my relationship is falling apart. It's probably really ridiculous of me because we have talks all the time about how she is still in love with me, and how its not me that has lowered libido, and that she is still interested in me. But the attitude she has most of the day, and the uneven amount of attention that we provide for each other is beginning to affect me. Side Note: I am graduating soon. I'm afraid of her losing interest in the year that we will be apart. Truly though, if everything goes well from here until December, I will be buying an engagement ring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): Hi Hunny,
You said its only been the last week, I understand if your relationship has been very physical that you may be worried but hunny I really dont think there is any need to over worry just yet, The best thing to do as you two are so close is talk, its the best thing in a relationship being able to chat away like best mates about anything,
You dont say what kind of meds your g/f has been prescribed love but that sometimes can have an affect expecially at the begining of taking them untill her system gets used to them, They could be making her tired and all sorts of different affects could be going on inside her body and mind...Also the reason for taking them could add to it all. Hunny talk with her your feeling not so wanted and scared and all you need is a hug and reasurrance she may feel like a huge hug as well, I no its not always easy to get the words out you want, Ive only just learnt to be able to talk and thats because of my great partner, Sometimes a hug and an understanding chat can do wonders and then you wont be so worried, I hope this helps a little TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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