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writes: hello, my name is mamadrama, and i'm having problems having mutiple orgasms i can only have one and after that it's very sensitive to the touch and my mate loves to give oral sex alot and it's frustrating to him when i don't want him to do it after one so what can i do to have more orgasms to satisfy myself and my mate. thankyou mamadrama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2006): Agreed with the others.
Your partner has been watching way too much porn, the idea that you can repeatedly bring a women to orgasm again and again in one go is grossly exaggerated.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (16 July 2006):
 You probably can't change this. If you are hyper-sensitive after an orgasm you need to egt him to back off before you *go for it* again. Otherwise you will start to associate sex with being uncomfortable.
At least he can give you one orgasm....many women cannot even achieve that with their partners.
Good luck.
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reader, Granny +, writes (16 July 2006):
 Mamadrama, I think your name suits you well. Drama! The idea that all women are capable of multiple-orgasm is an urban myth, similar to the one about giant crocodiles in the New York subway. MamaD, perhaps up to 20% of all women cannot achieve orgasm at all according to one study I read recently. Imagine that! Frightening, isn't it?
So at least be happy that you can achieve orgasm on a regular basis, and your partner should accept your wishes to stop after a certain point, that is, when you both are satisfied. It is unnecessary pressure from your boyfriend to expect to almost to come on demand just because he performs oral-sex. Body parts do become numb from too much stimulation and it just doesn't work that way with most mortal beings. Almost no-one can do this. My personal recommendation for a multiple orgasm is, to make love, rest, chat, laugh, tease, cuddle and do it again if you want to sometime later.
I think your bf wants you to come a lot so he can tell himself that he is a "real" man. Tell him you are a real woman.
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