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writes: hi my partner is bossy he likes to be in control of everything and he thinks he knows everything he keeps phots of his exs and if we fall out he will call me down and say they were better i feel trapped we have a daughter hat will i do
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reader, bonym  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 My dear why should you have to put up with this, you deserve better ad so does your child. Have you got the will and confidence to get up and leave him? Once you are gone, he will then see the error of his ways but it will be too late, dont be a mat dont let someone walk all over you, get up and do whats best for you. Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): He wants you to feel hopeless, useless so that he can continue to abuse you.
He is the one with the major issues; he is the one with insecurities.
He lets his fears rule him.
You deserve better.
I say move on and get some individual counseling to help you heal from this abusive and destructive relationship.
Your child doesn't need to be taught that she can be abused and treated like garbage by a man.
*hugs*
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (27 August 2006):
 This man sounds like he is no good for you and you need to get out of the relationship. Nobody has the right to say things to purposely put you down, no matter how mad they are, especially not the person who is supposed to love you.
My advice to you is to get out of this relationship. Tell him it's over until he sorts himself out and, maybe if he can prove he's changed one day and can treat a woman properly, you can work things out. Until you are sure he is willing to do this, there really is no relationship to save.
As for having a baby to him, you have to think about you. The child won't hate you for leaving when she's older and realises why you left. Let her make her own mind up about him but, for her sake, get out now. She wants a happy mum who's full of life, not a scared woman who is constantly knocked down by her partner. She will be proud of you if you show her that women are worth more than that.
Good luck.
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