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writes:my partner and i have been together for 7 yrs. and she frequently says another woman's name, not always the same one ,during sleep while she is masturbaing. it may be a co-worker, someone she thinks is attractive, or a patient - she is a pt. this is driving me crazy. why can't she say my name. should i be concerned that she never says my name and why does she say someone else's name and why is she masturbating so often in her sleep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): They are her sexual fantasies. So long as they stay that way, you have no reason to worry my friend.
No one's sexual fantasy is their partner. Because most of us can seperate real life from make believe.
Also, she is pretty much objectifying these people in her fantasies, perhaps she cares to much about you and your feelings to do that to you. But as she has no emotional investment in these attractive people, she uses their images for simple sexual gratification.
Another thing, have you actually tried bringing this up with her and telling her this? She's the one you need to be talking to, not the interwebs.
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