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writes: My parents do not like my boyfriend. Im not allowed to see him or even speak to him. Ok, He went to jail for hitting his mom. He is out now, i love him more than ever. People keep telling me that I should break up with him bcuz he may end up hurting me as well. But when i told him that what people think, he said that he would never hurt me in any way. he said that he loved me more than anything and that he wouldnt do anything i didnt want to do. He is the most sensitive guy i have ever met. i trust him worth my life knowing that he would never hurt me in any way. I still talk to him knowing that i am not supposed to. I love him way too much to let him go. I dont know if i should break up with him or not. I have had a lot of past relationships, but this is the best guy i have ever had. he is not the best looking guy in the world at all, but its just when he holds me, i feel as if that is where i belong or something. he can sit there and hold me for hours. we cuddle a lot and i like it. that isnt the reason why i love him so much though. i can talk to him about anything, and i can actually be myself around him. thats the first. I really do think that this is the first time that i am really in love. what should i do? I want my parents to like who i go out with. if me and my boyfriend, Eric really do have a future, i want my daddy to walk me down the isle proud, and when the preacher asks who gives this woman to this man, i want my dad to say that it is him who gives me to the guy i love, Eric. Seriously, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): hey girl i know exactly how u feel even though im only 14 years old im kinda goin through the same exact thing and truth is iont know what to do either because i really like him too but my mom and step fauther hate his guts and they would kill me if i ever talked about being with him. so yeh i know how u feel like i said. im sure other girls.......&woman are going through the same thing we are so hange in there girl if u love him then u should be with him but if he turns out to be like how your parents say he is then u know that is gona be a big I TOLD U SO so u know what just follow your heart and see where it takes you much love to ya: chels*
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): okay . . .
my boyfriends parents dont want me seeing or even tlking too him i kno how u feel !
idk what he is too me nemore and it hurts i cant eat sleep and go an hour with out crying
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reader, blue_angel +, writes (15 June 2005):
Your parents are probably right in thinking that there is someone better for you out there. My mom always told me to watch the way a boy treats his mom because chances are that's the same way he'll treat his wife. Of course I didn't listen, but it turns out that's exactly what happened in my case. My ex didn't treat his mother with respect his mother and he didn't treat me with respect. I'm hoping that it isn't the same way in your case because you really seem to love this guy. I don't know the circumstances for the violence, but there never really is a good one. If he loses his temper with his mom, he'll inevitably loose his temper with his wife with all the pressures of bills, kids and job stress. I do agree that it should ultimately be your decision if/when you're 18. If it's love, it will last so don't rush things. Take it slow.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (14 June 2005):
 I think that you will just have to be paitent for a while. Your parents are only looking out for thier little girl, and they dont want you to get hurt, and with the past record of your boyfriend they are scared that hes going to hurt you too. They cant see how the two of you are together, they just want you to be away from him as that way you are safe. You may have to ride the storm for and a while and if you two are meant to be togehter you will find a way. You may have to keep seeing him in secret for a while, and then let them know that they have him all wrong.. its all about him proving himself... in time if things do work out for the two of you ... the will eventually accept him, but they too need to learn to trust him, over time this will become easier, but to begin it will be a bit raw. Sit tight for a while and hopefully it will come good in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2005): You should do what you feel is right. You are the only one to blame if things do go bad, that way your parents cant say I told you so. From past experience if he hit his mother who gave him life, what makes you think you are any better that he wont start hitting you? Is it really worth it to you? Either way the choice is yours to make not your parents.
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