A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys, my name is Julian I'm gay, here's my story...There's this guy I like a lot, he's my coworker, a very sweet guy very down to earth and sweet, he's always in my area and goes straight to my office to talk to me, he knows i'm gay not because ive told him, but i guess he can tell, im not flaming at all though, the thing is that theres he looks at me in a sweet way, he got nervous when he's talkin to me, but still very sweet, i cant control myself when i talk to him, i start to blush, now im doin a little better, the thing is that he has a girlfriend, i hung out with him and his friends, his gf included and he was all the time talkin to me, he didnt even paid much attention to his girlfriend, shes such a sweet girl, but i feel kinda awkward :( now i dont know what to do, hes always giving me mixed signals...but lately he's been acting kinda weird, ive asked him if hes ok and he says hes just tired, i dunno i feel something different in him, and im kinda worried, cuz hes such a great guy...To be honest i think ive fallen for him, and i just dont know how to deal with my feelings, please i need help, guys i really do, i know he likes me, but i dont wanna build castles in the sky cuz this stuation is very difficult
View related questions:
co-worker, has a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, kevin3007 +, writes (25 February 2010):
 ok here is the thing he likes you he gave you mixed signals he is acting weirdly he doesn't pay attention to his girl friend and he gets nervous when he talks to you well all this stuff happen to me when i fall for a guy(execpt the girl friend part) so he must be in love with you he is atracted to you but maybe he doesn't know that cause he is staight and this is his first time that he ever fell for a guy this is a small rule i made from my experiments with guys : if he is avoiding you and he can't look at you in the eyes he must be SO IN LOVE with you .....so man you're leading the horse and that's good cause you can control your self when you're with him ...with time he'll tell you how he feels about you(dude spend more time with him and make the connection between you guys better....don't forget to seduce him )...good luck ps: if it works send me a message i'll give you some tricks to seduce him.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Well if i had a pound for every guy i fell for Ile be well off If your a single lad by the sounds of things you are I think the attraction your getting for him the feeling your getting are not a bad thing as long as you rember theres no chance that this guys not gay and he just likes me because ive got a great maner about you easy to talk to friendley an all around great guy.at the end of the day your human and have feeling that you need to address in your own way and do you woint to loose his friendship answer no so be friends and enjoy his friendship
...............................
|
