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writes:I am only 14 years old and I really like this 16 year old. He has two tattoos and my parents don't like the fact that he has them. I like making out with him but it feels like i want more and don't know how to tell him and plus I want him to know i like him more than a friend.
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reader, LynstHolin +, writes (13 July 2007):
I would think that making out with him would tell him that you like him as more than a friend, unless things have changed a whole lot since I was in school.
As for your parents not liking your boyfriend--demonstrate to them that he's not a bad influence. Keep your grades up, follow their rules, don't poke any new holes in your body. They may never love him, but they may come to respect him.
If you push your body as close as possible to his when you make out, he'll get the message. Back off if he's not responding--he may want to take your relationship to that level. But first, check out this web-site: http://www.scarleteen.com/
And remember, no matter how much you like this guy, take care of yourself first and foremost. Boys are everywhere, but you've only got one you :)
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 your parents are only concerned about you and your safety. listen to wat they have to say and you will probably be able to comprimise - assure them that you only want to date this guy. wen you said you want more do you mean sex? you are only 14 and too young to have sex - you should wait until you are older and understand love and relationships better - i dont mean to sound like a nag but id say i speak for alot of ppl wen i say i wish i had waited til i was older and in love. talk to this guy and see wat he wants - friends or more?? but just remember that your parents are not against you they are protecting you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 July 2007):
 Your parents wouldn't give a rip about his tatoos unless they think you maybe involved with this guy. I would be very concerned if my 14 yr. old daughter was interested in a 16 yr. old. It is important that you listen to them and follow their instructions, advice, and rules. Your parents are there for your well-being and have that formost in their minds. You are lucky to have them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): Hun, I'm a couple years older than you and im going out with an 18 year old boy with 8 tattoos and his lip pierced and to tell you the truth parents dont REALLY care about the outside they care how the guy; a: treats you and,b:if he has a plan with his lifethey might not like him cuz he has tattoos and they will think, "man he has tatoos hes a bad kid and has no life plan" TRUST me thats all parents think about, the guy im with now my parents didnt like then they got to know him and they think he's the best guy ive ever brought homeHope I Helped :)
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