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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi,i have a new boyfriend who is a lot more experienced than me. i feel like i am letting him down as i cannot make him cum through oral/manual(hand)sex. if i try for to long it justs starts to hurt him. anyone got any tips?thanks
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reader, DV1 +, writes (23 May 2007):
 My group(composed of both males and females) all agree that the guy's greatest pleasure parts are at the base of the shaft, and at the tip. It's where all of the nerve endings are located. If you apply pressure at the base(bottom) of the shaft, or touch somewhere near the tip, your going to get more arousal out of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): Hi, I kind of doubt that this is because you are not doing something correctly, you do not have to be an expert at this to make a guy cum...I think he has an issue with relaxing and letting go.
You can buy a book at any local bookstore about such techniques, all have something to offer.
That said the best thing to do in this situation is to take you time and relax and most importantly communicate. Ask him to tell you or even show you what turns him on, every man and woman is different in that regard. He may like a certain pressure, or speed, ask him while you are doing it if this feels good, and he will open up and tell you and show you...don't worry it will happen, just don't be afaid to talk to him about it....the most important thing is that you care about each other and your relationship in and out of the bedroom.
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