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writes: I met a guy on-line and he's kind of stalker, I don't know how to reject him politely, what can do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Hi,
there is only one answer for this one. And it's one all the others have been saying. Ditch him now before it's too late!!!
You know it's the right thing to do.
Good Luck and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (10 April 2006):
 that kinda remind me of an old friend, she meet this guy and she asked him out and he said yes. they went out on onne date ad she thro it was great. thats when she staarted following him home, at first she did it for a joke but then her friends encourage her do it to see what he was doing. he wasn't a good boyfriend to her, she would put so much time, money and effexct into there relationship and he gave her jack shit.
okay after awhile he dumped her for one her best friends. thats when she turn PYSHSCO. she began follow him home and his friends, she send nasty email, she threat is new girlfriend. she turn into the nasty, jealous, obsessed ex...after a year she got over it.
i went a lil off track but my point is you need to tell him now before he turns on you.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (10 April 2006):
 You need to jsut tell him......He might get the hump with you, but he will soon turn his attentions elsewhere. Then block any further contact from him and forget about it.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006): For some reason, when you said "I don't know how to reject him politely", I couldn't help but laugh/chuckle. I'm sorry, but not to offend of course, but I think if you don't know how to reject him politely, you can at the very least, just simply, put it out there and say, "You know, you're a fine guy and all, but you're just not my type."
Do NOT apologize to him. First of all, you have nothing to apologize for. Yes, there might be 'some' awkwardness, but really, if he's not comprehending your words, that's the 'best' way to go. Honesty is a nice quality to a degree of course. Unless he's a maniac, then well, you know how to handle that right?
Don't be afraid to speak your mind once in awhile. I think as uncomfortable as it may initially feel, once you get it out of the way, it's all good and dandy. 8]
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