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41-50,
*amohir
writes:I've seen a man only 4 times... He had texted me, really,we were skyping lots of time... but never asked about any serious question about me or anything! I fell completely in love with him, was love on first sight, somehow. Now he came with idea, that we should marry?? I would like but feel confused. We almost dont know each other, and he is living in another country. What you think i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): i have also a friend...he is in other country......
i see him from 8 months ago..
is good to talk with he..
he is very far...
in other continten..i have mnay feels for he..
but ..im sure..
that it is not love...
it cant be love..
it is only like dream........
one can love to anyguy that ione dont see....
you see him only when he is ok..
or do you know how is he when he is angry????
and if he is rude?????
you are not there when he has some problem.......or nervios
..if he is differnet..in that moment????????
if he change completely..??????
in a relation online*......one can show all the nice things that one have.......
but it is not possible all the time...
..............................think well that you want to do......
............byee
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Don't rush into it. Marriage is forever, long after the intial 'in love' feeling fades.
People that want to marry too quickly, in my opinion, tend to be more in love with the idea of being in love than being in love with the person they're proclaiming their love for.
Get him to make an initial commitment of moving to the same country as you. Then, give that 18months or more & then, and only then, if it's still going well at that time should you consider marriage.
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