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writes:Dear readers, Alright,so this situation of mine has been going on for probably about two and a half weeks now. The situation is: I'm in grade eleven and I just noticed this guy who's in grade twelve (I've seen him around school when I was in grade ten) and now I really like him. And I'm going to be honest with anyone who's reading this, yes, I do like him for his looks right now-- and no he doesn't know me at all. But, that's why I would really like to get to know him. Thing is, it's very hard to get to know someone if they're not in your grade, or in any of your classes, therefore I can't even make small talk at lunch about a project we might have had together or something. And there have been many opportunities for me to go and talk to him, for example, an empty seat beside him at a computer in the library and seeing him at the same food place in the plaza across from our school, but I was such a coward, and so I never took that seat beside him in the library, and when I saw him at that food place, I didn't even make eye contact with him. I know this sounds stupid. And there are probably going to be older readers that are going to reply to this and say, 'Kid, listen up... there are PLENTY of other fish in the see, and you're only in high school.' And I know that, but haven't you ever felt the need to know someone? No matter how old you are. The point is, my friends and I are all pretty good friends with one of his best friends (in our drama club, and we're putting on a show at school.) And I just really want his friend to introduce me to him. (And maybe he'll see our show, because his best friend is in it!) Anyways, I really don't know what to do, and I just got over a major 2 year crush on this other guy from my grade. All I know, is that I really like this guy in grade 12, and I just don't know how to get him to notice me. P.S. My friends keep telling me that it isn't worth it, because he doesn't even know who I am, but I just want to know how he feels when he actually meets me. If I feel like he doesn't like me, then I'll move on, but if I think there is actually something there, then that's good. :)What should I do? By the way, I'm terribly sorry for my horrific grammar.
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reader, Kat_M_2011  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Well age is just a number sweetie. And if you can't ever get to know him like in classes and stuff, find cute ways for him to remember you in between classes. Always walk like you're confident stuff. Chin up. If he looks at you look at him, hold his gaze for like 5 seconds and then look away, play with your hair or something. Smile at him too. Guys go for smiles. Then if you bump into him in like the library or something, say he's reading a book. Strike up a conversation about books. What do you think about this book? Do you have a favorite? The ice will break. Just don't let on you're crushing on him first. Be his friend and get to know him first, then let him in on your lil secret. There are other fish in the sea, but if you wanna hook this one, play it up confidently and be cool, collective, and most important, be yourself :)
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reader, ciaran212  +, writes (20 October 2010):
i say you try and get to know him and if he starts to like you and whatnot just go for it but if he isnt what you hoped dont bother.
and can you help me with mine.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-short-and-the-tall-of-it.html
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