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writes:Me and my husband are in the middle of seperating .He is still in the house at the moment ,but i have seperated my wage and his wage into our own accounts on the understanding that we both put money in to our joint accout to pay the bills.But he is taking money out of the joint accout that i have put in for bills .What can i do?
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (17 August 2008):
 i agree with yos. hes going to run you dry..stop putting money into this account..and pay your half of the bills direct and not through the account..and if he does not pay his then demand him to leave or start finding accomodation yourself.. good luck aphex xx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 You need to stop putting money into the joint account altogether. Pay any bills you have to pay out of your own money, and if he needs to contribute, you need to get that money from him.
It's a horrible, messy situation to be in, but the bottom line is, if he's willing to take your money out of the account, you have to not put any in.
Overall you need to separate your finances as fast as you can. That means separating your lives and having no financial dependencies.
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