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writes: why does my mum always favour my sister, last night i went out for a drink with some friends at a males house, there was nothing wrong with what we did, we was inside, quiet music, monopoly, mindin our own business, chatttin and having a drink, my mum kicked off with me sayin im turnin into a 'smack head' and im changing and she dunt know where shes gone with bringin me up, and then we went to her friends house today to pick something up and she was discusted because her friend was lettin her 14 year old daughters boyfriend stay over cause hes 16 and hes a man., when she is completely hypocritical because she lets her 13 year old daughter (my sister)'s 18 year old boyfriend stay with her every single night in her bedroom (which is in the loft so no one knows what theyre doin anyway) until 11 o clock. and im just sick of her chosin my sister over absolutly everyone. my sister is 13 and shes slept with 6 people to my knowledge, ive found a couple of pregnancy texts in her bedroom over time and shes been smokin for two years, but shes the goody little two shoes, the one who cant do wrong. and im the one who goes out with some friends and is a smack head, a this n a that, im a tart, mums gone somewhere wrong bringin me up as she says. im 16, im single, yeah i went out with my ex for over a year and i did lose my virginity to him but hes the only person ive slept with, i dont smoke, i dont know why she doesnt like me?! or thats what it seems anyway, does anyone know why she may favour her?! im so confused nowadays. im sick of trying to talk to my mum and communicate with her, i asked her the other day if she wanted to go for a coffee while my brothers and sisters where at school, i was going to pay and everything and she was like no i dont want your money n all this lot! i wa like omg what have i done?!!!!! does anyone know why she acts like this at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): I agree with RealFunkei
Distance yourself from your mother. A stubborn person will never understand anything until they want to understand it. Also what I suggest you to do is to try and be more independent and if you're close to being 18, try getting of the house so you can have more liberty.
Also, if you ever decide to talk to her again about her attitude, don't insult your mother. Respectfully tell her what she has done and how it has affected you and your sister. This will show who's the bigger, more mature person and will probably will make her see her errors (over time)
Good luck.
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