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writes: i´have very heavy bad trauma in my life, starts from my own family, relation and now it is starting with my own daughter.its been a long story but to make it short evrything happen i can say i can only blame my own parents specialy my mother who never learn to let me go, she hold my neck, i feel like she give me in this world to be her servant that what ever she want me to do then i have to do it, my mistakes is i let her do it to me and even my own kids i let her do it, and now she is the one who is ruling all my life., sometimes i feel i wanna kill my self ano now im on the situation that i cant stand it anymore she has my kids i want to get them but the feeling of my kids is with them already and i do respect the feeling of my kids, but for how long im going to suffer with this. i can say, the lord knows whats going on in this world but my mother knows more better...im still hoping that someday miracle will happen that evrything will change, but for this time i need help,, some advice how can i still stand this situation. pl. help. thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (17 November 2006):
 I think you would benefit from specialist counselling - family therapy can be effective at dealing with some of the issues you describe so why not ask your doctor for help? They are not just there for medical issues, they can help with psychological problems and trauma such as you describe too. You have every right to live your life with respect and dignity without being dominated by your parents - you have made the first important step (recognised there is a problem) so the next step is to take some action!
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