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*ilWun23
writes:im a college student, never gotten into no trouble at all, my friends arent criminals or anything exept for one person who i dont hang out with anymore. yet when i go out my mother calls me like every 10 min to check out what im doing with who and so on. if i wanna go out she must nearly interogate the person im with. i am disabled but i dont have any breathing or heart issues, but yet i feel very over protected, and when i want to talk about it, it becomes WW!! in my house between me and my mom so its no point in talking to her unless there is a friend of hers in the conversation, what should i do in order to have mom gain confidence?
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 What disabilities do you have? You said it is not a life threatening one. Well, I guess it is not, since you are away from home in college.
I have a wicked grin on my face right now. You know why? Because I was thinking of this: Put your cell phone on voice-mail mode for all incoming calls. Then your voice message is something like this: I am sorry I cannot take your call right now, but I will call you back as soon as I can. And for you, Mom, yes, I am fine thank you. My heart and lungs are still pumping blood and oxygen diligently to my brain so I can study and still have fun now and then. [Or something to that effect]
I think after a while she will get the message (pun intended)
Friends who want to contact you can send text messages instead.
Some mothers do what she does regardless of their children being disabled ... mothers are mothers ... LOL
One time my dad picked me up at a friend's birthday party, 30 minutes after he dropped me off there! ... and I was already bloody 15!! LOL
Mothers ... bless their loving hearts!
Cat
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