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writes: I am a young teen well i'm uder 15.Well the problem is that my mum says i'm not allowed to see my boyfreind so the other day i sneaked out and he fingered me for the first time.It felt good and i did cum but i'm worried what my mum will say if she finds out.Cos i sneaked out and got fingered for the first time.I need to know what to do because the next time i go out i have promised to give him a hand job.I want to give him one but i'm worried.My mum says she doesn't like him because she says he always looks at me in a flirty way.My mum says i am only allowed to get a boyfreind at 18.She's living in the past.Plz HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2006): I agree with the above about you enjoying being young.
And, think about it, if he makes you promise and keep promises like giving hand jobs, is it because he really cares about you and this relationship? I bet not. Take some time to get to know each other. Sex, even fingering and hand jobs, is so much better when it means something with someone you care about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2006): Hey, i soooo know how this is gna sound bt dnt av sex with this guy, he wont respect you for it. I know the feeling cos all the guys at my school where like that, all they were interested in was sex!! Getting frisky with a guy is n't gna make you any more popular anyway!! I never had a boyfriend till i was 18 and I was still the most popular girl in my school!! I'm not saying don't talk to him! lol Every girl likes attention, you just don't need to go that far to get it!!!:P
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (4 April 2006):
 I really don't blame your mother - she is just trying to protect you from things like unprotected sex. She doesn't want you to get hurt or used or heartbroken.
but by the same token, I understand your frustration at not being allowed to spend time with this boy.
I think that you need to talk to your mother and don't say things like she is living in the past, that really will not get you anywhere.
I think you need to talk to her and say that you enjoy spending time with this boy and you would rather do that with her permission. I'm sure your mother would not have problems with him coming over to your house when she is there and you spending some time with him or him coming over and having a family meal with you and your family.
I know this doesn't sound ideal but you and HIM need to build up the trust and respect of your parents and help them understand that you are growing up and are responsible.
Sneaking out is silly and irresponsible and can get you into serious trouble. What if something happens to you and no one knows where you are?
I think that you need to show your mother that you are responsible and that this boy is nice and believe me if he is worth it, he will be more than happy to help build a relationship with your parents so they trust him and feel comfortable with him.
Don't be in such a rush to grow up - you will only regret it later, take your time and get to know this boy. Besides, in the long run it will be much better if your parents approve rather than you having to sneak off behind their backs.
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reader, tux  +, writes (3 April 2006):
 It seems like her worries are warranted in this case. You may want to reasses where your actions are leading you and be careful where you are going with this.. You are leading towards sex which your mom is trying to protect you from. You are still young and have a lot of life still in you. Sex is great but it carries responsibilities and is normally better when you hold off until you are ready for it. You may feel that you are ready and physically you are. But you may want to pull back from it for now.. you are younger than 15 and should enjoy being a kid while you can.
But if you do go further make sure you are protected because I can see this going further than just fingering and hand jobs. Use protection. Condoms work wonders. Pregnancy is one of the last things you'd want. Also, if you do give him a handjob, be sure not to get any cum on you where it matters. If he does finger you the same day, make sure he does not get any of him cum on his fingers and then places his fingers in you. But I would recommend for you to think and hold off on what you are doing.
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