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writes: Hi! I'm hoping for some advice because I'm worried about my friend. Basically he's engaged to this woman that he's been seeing for about a year and they are due to get married early next year. When I spoke to him he was really enthusiatic saying that he's met someone really special and how he loves being with her etc. However when I was out in town last weekend I saw him flirting with this other girl that I know. This particular girl has had a boyfriend for about 4 and a half years but there has always been a lot of chemistry between her and my friend. I know they have slept together a couple of times in the past and over the years they have frequently disappeared off together from bars and clubs, but supposedly only kissed. Well going back to last weekend I basically saw my mate looking at her pretty much all night and acting really hyper and childish around her then the pair of them disappear out of a nighclub together round the back for quite a while, and then later on he came back on his own and I didn't see her. I'm just really worried about the prospect of him getting married now. He's convinced me that he's in love with his fiancee and won't talk about this other girl and denies everything. Can anyone give me any idea about what's going on here? Your advice would be much appreciated x
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reader, wiltingmagnolia +, writes (29 November 2005):
I think you owe it to his fiancee to tell her. If he's doing it now, he'll do it when they're married. Don't let her marry him thinking he's faithful. She'll know something's up when 1) she gets a disease from him or 2)he get's some other girl pregnant or 3)they have kids together and then she finds out. And she won't care for you much either if she finds out you knew the whole time. If he really is in love with her, he would see no one but her.
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