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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is a little awkward but here goes. I have been masturbating a lot lately but recently I have noticed a "change". Before when I was masturbating, my clit became somewhat umm "hard" if that makes any sense. But now, its soft all the time and it takes me way longer to orgasm. Its really weird to explain but does anyone know what im talking about? Why did it change like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Because you are not really exited, you are mastrubating because you got used to do it. You are not really 'turned on'. If you wait a bit till your body is asking for an orgasm, you will feel the difference.
I can imagine that, if you are not quickly getting your orgasm and you are 'rubbing' a lot, it might become a bit too sensitive and automatically your clit will send some signals to your brains and tell to get not so exited and not come so ummm 'hard'.
And if you take care your clit and keep it wet, its should be no problem to have several or even a lot(depending how quickly you come)orgasms a day.
Not the numbers are important, but the feeling, so listen to your body.
Hope my answer could help you a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Hi,
In my opinion, because of masturbating rather frequently, it has permanently lost its sensitivity. I think, all you have to do is to be really stimulated before you start masturbating. Also try to find some new techniques for masturbating ;)
TUNC
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Just like with sex you have to switch it up a little to keep it interesting. Have you tried toys, or special lubricant? Or maybe rub it a different way. Try faster/slower. Go in circles, find the G-spot first and concentrate on that. Also really use your imagination and get into it. Turn yourself on. Good Luck!
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