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writes: My friend and i have started going out to clubs more often. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and she has been married to her husband for 2 years. The problem is i am totally devoted to my boyfriend, however my friend has already admitted that she has snogged another bloke on one of our nights out. My boyfriend and her husband are really good friends adn i'm worried that if it gets out i will either be shouted at for not telling them, or worse accused of doing the same. What should i do?
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reader, Smiler +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Hey there
I can completely understand where your coming from here... if your friend is found out you will be tarred with the same brush as she is particularly with your guy and her guy being close friends. i would advise you to do one or both of these things :-
firstly sit down with your friend over coffe explain to her how her actions are making you feel and explain the situation she is putting you in. if she values you as a true friend she will alter her behaviour when you go out so you don't get caught in the cross fire should the situation go belly up... if she refuses to change then explain that you can't go out clubbin with her any longer as you value your relationship with your man
secondly get in there first sit your man down tell him the situation and that if and when she gets caught (and she will trust me its usually the way) you don't want him to think your doin the same thing because your not you are in love with him etc...
that would be the way i think i would deal with it... I hope that my advise helped you a little... i'm always here for you if you ever neeed to talk or just some more advise ok. I would love to hear from you again
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, sasha93 +, writes (31 May 2006):
 well if i was you id consult your friend and tell her that she cant just go snogging other people for the sake and that it could lead to more things. also that shes got a loveing husband who cares for her and one night she might not be so lucky. if she gets caught this would make her life worse all over some petty kiss? is it realy worth itall?
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