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writes:hi, i have been with my guy for 3yrs we even have a baby boy.he is divorced with 3 kids from the previous marriage.he really loves but the problem is that my man doesnt want us to have marriage under the ordinance.what he want is the traditional marriage.i feel a bit insecure with this type of marriage..i dont know his intentions. Im confused .please advice me on what to dn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): Offer to sign an airtight pre-nup agreement protecting him from a financial ruin if you two get divorced later on. That's undoubtedly what he is really worried about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): Your husband is a dick.
Any man who truly loves a woman should have no problem committing to her, especially if they have a child together. He's clearly still scarred from his other marriage, and doesnt want the hassel of a divorce should you two break up.
Tell him you want a legal marriage or you're breaking up. He is doing this so he can ensure he himself can leave you easily at any time.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 What is the difference between "marriage under the ordinance" and "traditional" marriage????
It "sounds" as if one is "for real" .... and the other is "for appearances sake".....
If that's so, I suggest you insist upon the "real" thing...
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