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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:met my boyfriend 2yrs ago quite soon after he split with his ex, the first yr was on and off, then his ex came back on the scene which dented my confidence a bit, he settled with me but has never really made me feel great about myself as he suffers from depression, hes feelin better as hes on anti-depressants, now hes startin a job in a strippers club as a bouncer and am not to happy with it, told him if he takes it were finished, but thought about it and am half heartedly standing by him, do you think am being unreasonable?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): if you feel uncomfortable about it then you need to sit down and list out the reason why you feel uncomfortable. with these reasons think over in your mind if it logical or illogical. after that list the pros and cons of him working in a strip club (is it good money offers time for you and him, does it offer benifits? etc) and after all that just talk with him one on one... But hon, I have a boyfriend who used to work with a strip club. They are the nicest girls there (if your not competing with their source of income) and if you really feel like you wish to see that you have nothing to worry about why not go with him to work one day. (pop in and drop off some food, just to say hi, etc)Well, good luck with talking with him about your concerns and don't worry about the women working
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