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writes: Is My man leaving me? He won't have sex with me, won't kiss me, won't touch me, He doesn't want me to touch him. he goes to the bar everynight after work and lies to me about it. I confronted him about it, so now he really won't talk to me and won't answer his phone. Wouldn't say goodbye when he leaves in the morning to go to work, just walks out the door without a word.He was married for twelve years to a nasty person. He was recently divorced this year. He has had bad experiences with past relationships, but I am different and he has always told me so, how nice I am and how well I take care of his kids grown up as they are. I have his supper fixed for him every night, a good clean home to come to, I don't ask anything from him but his love and he won't even give me that. we don't have sex but once a month. Can someone enlighten the blind here?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (10 December 2006):
 I would say he is treating you badly in order that YOU finish things with him, so he doesn't have to do the messy painful break up thing. After all he will reason it is YOUR choice. Talk to him and pin him down to a yes or no answer.
Good luck.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 December 2006):
 To be honest, from what you say, it doesn't look good. And even if he does still want a relationship with you, why would you want one with him? He doesn't sound like he's offering you much... he's not even giving you the basics of what you want. It sounds like you could get more affection, if you moved into an apartment of your own and got a puppy.
I think it's time to leave this guy and find someone who can offer you the love you deserve.
"kellyO" said it really well. "Tell him how u feel and why u are leaving. Take control of your life and look for someone who would show you love."
I second that.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, kellyO +, writes (8 December 2006):
 I have to be sincere with you.I'm afraid things are looking very bad here for you. You have to stand up and take control of the situation. My own advise will be to leave him. You have tried already talking to him and it didnt work. He isnt treating u fairly at all. Alot of people go through divorce and i know it can be hard but that doesnt give him reasons to treat u so cold. People do go to the bar but not at the detriment of ignoring your gf and family.You have been there for him and his kids, and have shown genuine love and support what more can u ask for but a man who would come home and spend some time with u adoring u.
Tell him how u feel and why u are leaving. Take control of your life and look for someone who would show you love.
Goodluck dear.
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