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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My man watches porn online while im sleeping or not home. I have asked him nicely to only watch it with me as a couple, but he still does it behind my back. Should i be concerned? Is he loosing interest in me?
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I agree with Sincerely Yours. She has some really great points. I recently went through a porn issue with my fiance. I thought it had something to do with me, but it doesn't. He is still the same man he has been throughout our whole relationship. During our fight about it, he told me that he thinks about me while looking at it.
Just remember that men are usually more horny than women are. Do you want him to come to you two times or so a day for sex? That would get old, you would most likely get sore. Think of the porn as a break for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni want to thank everyone who took the time to answer my questions, i had nowhere else to turn, i took the advice given an things are slowly changing im just not sure if its for the good or bad yet but ill let everyone know when i know. thanks again!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Maybe he has some secret fetish he watches and he is embarrassed about??
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 July 2010):
 No he's not losing interest at all. Are you bothered because you don't want him to do it or because you're worried he's not attracted to you? He's still interested, don't worry.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 I know it would be very embarrassing for me to have anyone watch what I like. It's a private thing-sharing your deepest fanasy with the one you love would be hard to do
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (29 June 2010):
 I think porn is a relatively private thing for men. When in a relationship, men put so many things out in the open, and lose so much of their privacey, that maybe it's best to just step back on a couple of tihngs, and give them that space that they're used to having.
I can understand why he would feel weird watching porn right in front of you. I really don't think it has anything to do with YOU though, so please don't worry. If we push and pull too much in a relationship, it tends to end in lying and deciet. But it doesn't always mean we should leave the relationship. Some times it just means we should alter the relationship. Take care.
~SY
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