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writes: I got involved with a friend and we had a fairly serious relationship for 6 months. However he was already having a relationship with another lady who was living with her partner. She found out about our relationship and after 2 months of him deliberating and changing his mind from me to her to me to her, she has now moved in with him. I am completely distraught. Not only have I lost a fantastic lover, I have also lost my best friend. I am feeling very lonely. He is going to try and phone me tomorrow and make sure I am OK. Should I ignore his phone calls? Should I text to make him feel guilty? Or should I just act normally as though it has not affected me and I am just glad that he is in a happy relationship? And how do I stop feeling so lonely? We used to see each other every day and speak on the phone 2 or 3 times a day. I have been 3 days now without contact since she moved in. I feel completely empty. What shall I do?
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (2 March 2006):
 The woman he is with might have pushed him into making a choice. Yet he is an adult and allowed it. It doesn't matter how he got in the situation, now it is the honorable thing for you to back away.
The best thing you can do is go on with your life. Enroll in some classes, volunteer, do an intership, get involved with your life. This will result in finding new friends that help fill the void.
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