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writes:please please read this!! I need help.oh god, i'm in a mess. me and my ex split up back in february of this year after 2yrs of a very on/off relationship. i always ended it, he was always really upset, but he always won me back. my family and friends really hated him and were glad when i finally saw sense and ended it once and for all. since it ended my life has been great and i have done well at work and increased my circle of friends. however, my love life is non existent and i've not had even a snog since i split from my ex. my best friend recently got married and another is engaged and i've been feeling lonely and scared - i'm 26 and feel i'll be alone for ever. i started thinking about my ex so last saturday i texted him and we agreed to meet up. we talked and i felt really comfetable. then before i went home i kissed him, and he responded. we met up again sunday and kissed again. now he wants to get back together and i agreed at first but now i'm getting scared. i remember all the times we've split up before and i know he's not my soul mate. i think i only did what i did cuz i felt lonely.now i feel incredible guilty that yet again i'm going to break his heart. i'm such a horrid person and i feel so bad i want to cry. any advice on how i should approach this??
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 August 2008):
Tell him you can't see him again any more. You have to hurt him a bit now rather than a lot later on. It's unfair just to use him because you are feeling lonely and know he will respond.
As for getting a new boyfriend, how often do you get in a situation where you are meeting new men. You say you are expanding your circle of friends which is great, so talk to them about it. Tell a few girlfriends that you are lonely and would really like a boyfriend. I am sure they know lots of single guys they could introduce you to.
Good Luck!! xx
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