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writes: I have been with my long-distance boyfriend for over a year and after a few months I cheated on him but it was only a kiss and he knows but he always makes me feel guilty for it and hangs out with lots of girls and I think it is to get back at me.He is the first person i have even been intimate with and now he has admitted if he wasn't in a relationship with me he would have sex with one of his close friends and I'm beginning to get paranoid and jealous,which is causing me depresson.I love him, however my friends are telling me because he knows he has me he will continue to treat me like I don't matter and has also admitted he doesn't want to be with me. I love him and he says he loves me, what can I do?
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (22 June 2006):
 I totally agree with Irish here.
Life is too short to spend it with someone who treats you like this. Be true to yourself and to your heart. NO ONE should EVER make you feel like this! and if they do and they keep doing it, like your so-called BF is, then you are in the wrong for staying in this situation.
I know it is hard to face up to the reality of the situation because you want to believe that everything will be okay and everything will work out and love will prevail, but sometimes you really do have to think of YOURSELF and YOUR OWN WELL-BEING first.
You will be okay - you will leave this uncaring and disrespectful BOY behind and you will find someone else who never makes you feel like this! Right now you don't think you could ever love someone like this again, but when you do find someone else, you will deny having ever loved someone as much. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): Dear, you are in love with a guy, who makes you feel like nothing. You really need to face up to the fact that he is taking you for granted because ...he can get away with it. There is no respect here, hun. The end result of his immature, unkind mindgames with you, is you are feeling hurt, depressed and resentful. When a love relationship that is truely healthy, a couple does not inflict this pain on each other. They love each other honestly and they support each other. A good rule of thumb when you are dating is ...you go forward when it feels right, but you stop when it feels wrong. I recommend you take his unthinking, uncaring behaviours at face value and end this relationship before it drags you down into the depths of despair, even further.
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