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female
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*ove forever
writes:I've been dating this guy, A, for three weeks. We met thru a friend on a night where we both were desperate for a relationship. We have almost everything in common and he gets me. Almost a perfect relationship. Though it would be perfect if he told me why he's sad at the moment...My bf has depression issues and confidence problems, as do I...but not as bad. But no clue why he won't tell me what's wrong....Its a long distance relationship..but could it be that I did something wrong or is he doubting this?
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reader, love forever +, writes (15 August 2010):
love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe sorta blasted me when I asked what's wrong... Apparently Im way too sensitive....but he got one thing right. I am immature.
But Idk anymore....like he became really upset and now he seems annoyed...
What does feeling me out mean?
A
female
reader, peace love nsn +, writes (14 August 2010):
well mayby this is like a family issue or he just doesnt fele like discusing it cus it is very private.. but no matter what make sure you tell that you will be here waiting when he feels like talkin :) hope this helps
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Depending on when his depression started, it could be possible that it's the long distance relationship that's bothering him although, depression can occur for any number of reasons so no one can be sure that it's anyone's fault. Don't be so quick to blame yourself.
Everyone has confidence problems and if you're dating him, his self-confidence issues can't be all that bad right? Of course, I don't know him or you so I wouldn't know.
Have you told him that this is bothering you and that you want to help him? What does he say when you tell him? Does he want to be left alone? Sometimes all one needs is some time to his/her-self to think things through. Just be prepared to be there for him when he needs you. And he WILL need you.
I hope that helps.
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