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female
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30-35,
*francy
writes: am in a long distance relationship with a guy from my place but am now very far from him because the university that i go to is in the city while my place is in the northern part of my country(namibia)my boyfriend is now cheating on me with a girl at his school, the thing is i want to ask him about it but i do not know how to start since i heard it from a friend of his whom i do not know physically.............. i can not stop thinking he loves the other girl more than he does with me even though he confessed to me that am the woman of his life.... now i do not know if i should continue loving him the way i did before or maybe i should change my attitudes towards him? please help am in an unstable situation............
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reader, Me2105  +, writes (14 March 2009):
Hi,
I myself am in a long distance relationship. My man is from a different country. I am from the UK and he is from the middle east (Turkey)
LDR's are not easy and it takes a certain amount of trust in each other to go through with one.
He says to you that you are the woman of his life, If that was so then why is he cheating on you? You need to ask your self.... Is he the man of my life ?
If the answer is yes then you ask him about the affair he is conducting. If the answer is no then you need to consider if you want to continue putting your self through the heart ache of the relationship.
Time will also play a big part. Don't rush into anything that you would later regret. If you are unsure about the decision you want to make rather wait for a little while till you are 100% sure and are ready to follow your actions through. Time will show you what will happen. If you are not sure right now rather let time make the decision for you and let the relationship run its course.
You don't want to make a mistake that you will regrette.
Hope this helps
Me2105
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