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My internet guy is too old for me right now, but he says he'll wait. What do I do?

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Question - (19 May 2005) 8 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2005)
A , *ara nicole writes:

Hey I am a 15 year old girl and I am really confused! There is this 19 year old guy that I talk to on the internet a lot but I have never officialy met him but I have seen him around. I like him and he likes me but my parents wouldn't like me with a guy that old.

He said he would wait until I am older but I dont know if I should wait that long for him and I dont know if I want him to wait that long for me. I am only a sophmore and I have a lot of time to meet guys. I have the opportunity to meet this guy and hang out but I dotn know what I should do about all of this. Should I wait on him???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2005):

why oh why at 15 years of age are you dating on the net? surely there are clubs and venues you could go to where by you would meet people that you know or get to know on the net you never know who you're talking to so honey i would say stick to school friends or join local clubs. you have plenty of time to join people when you get older on the net dating sceen

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2005):

Hi, You're very young at the moment, and probably have alot of dating years ahead of you. But having said that 4 years isnt that big an age gap. I think if you were to make a go of it you would need to actually be together on a more frequent basis, just chatting now and then isnt any basis for a relationship. Perhaps just remaining friends for now and see what happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005):

ok wow sweety, this is not a good thing to get into a internet relationship! but at least you know what he looks like. well i think that you should tell him that if he waits and when you get older ya'll still like each other girl date him!!!! i mean think about it; you still can like talk get to know each other and as soon as you hit 18 you could be together with him!!! good luck!!!

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A reader, valleygirl +, writes (21 May 2005):

leave him. i m sure someone more charming will come into ur live

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2005):

Reading these answers here makes me shake my head. If you love him,and he loves you,and you both feel like you are right for each other,then it dosen't matter what other people think. If you two truly love each other then the age factor makes no diffrence at all. It's if you're happy with it that matters the most.

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A reader, shan +, writes (20 May 2005):

Don't spend time waiting for this guy. He'll only break your heart. You're young and have your whole life ahead of you.

You need to move on from this guy and start being the teenager you are.

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A reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (20 May 2005):

Why should you wait?

lol, the age gap wont get any smaller, trust me! :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2005):

First of all, you're 15! You should be out socializing not staying home on the internet meeting guys. He's 19! He should be in college trying to get his life started. He's either a loser, lying to you (that he'll wait), or he wants to sleep with a virgin (I'm guessing you are since you're 15). Don't be fooled. Go out and spend your teenage years with people your age. You're only 15 once. He's been there done that.

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