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writes:I am in a relationship from past 7 months .....he is such a nice guy truely to be loved .....bt i dont knw what is wrong wid me i keep on suspecting him ...n fear to lose him ....i m madly in love with him ....he always says that i love u he has even tattooed my name permanently on his arm ....yet i fear to lose him ...i rarely talk to any guy n he to any girl frm d day we got commited .....i am totally messed up ....i dont know how to stop suspecting him becz my suspicion is comming b/w us .....plz help
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reader, London Bridges  +, writes (11 December 2016):
 There is nothing we can do to help. It is up to you to change your thinking and insecure ways. If he has never given you a reason to doubt him why are you building up with anxiety over ideas that don't even exist. People create stories in their head about things that aren't even happening to them and then just sit there and worry about it all day. Either love wholly and fully or not at all.
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reader, London Bridges +, writes (11 December 2016):
There is nothing we can do to help. It is up to you to change your thinking and insecure ways. If he has never given you a reason to doubt him why are you building up with anxiety over ideas that don't even exist. People create stories in their head about things that aren't even happening to them and then just sit there and worry about it all day. Either love wholly and fully or not at all.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (11 November 2016):
 You have to face your fear. Easy to say I know. But ask yourself what is the worst that can happen? Will the world stop turning? No. Will you be unhappy for a while? Yes. Can you get through it? Yes. Will you ever find someone else? Yes - probably.
Can you make him stay if he doesn't want to? No.
So you might as well relax and accept what you have while you have it. He got a tattoo. That sounds pretty serious to me.
Let go, and it will all come to you.
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