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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a teacher. My husband is working abroad. I want to stay with him. But his family members don't want that. He is not trying to take me with him. Maybe because of our financial problems. But it will never end. If I got a job there, it will be good but his father don't want that. We have a child. I am feeling alone.. and depressed. Nobody to understand me. Please give me an advice. What should I do!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): A man should stand by the mother of his children and his partner - you. Family must back off. If he doesn't honour you and the relationship he is not committed to you and is still committed to his family. They should not make him choose. Think of yourself because another man would look after you much better than this. Give him an ultimatum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): You should do what YOU want.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 You need to understand you before anyone else can. This is your family with your husband. Your husbands family already has their own family. Sometimes we just need to back up and allow our children to live without interferance.
Whether you're with him or someone else, children don't learn as they become adult how to make good decisions as long as parents stand behind them and dictate what they believe that is. We all learn from our choices and whether they are good or bad that room is important to leave so we can learn. If we're always being told what to do and what not to do, we never have a chance to properly tell ourselves which way to go. We are then developed where we just sit around and wait for someone else to tell us what to do.
Your husband chose you to marry, so that alone deserves respect.
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