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writes:My husband and I have been married for seven years and recently separated 8 months ago but we have both decided to work on things. My husband has daughters from a previous relationship. I live with our children and my parents. He has just informed me that his ex that he has had his daughters to marriage split and has now started living with my husband, but he says it is just a rental situation and that she has somebody else..... my heart broke when I heard this but he says it doesn't change anything between him and I and that he still wants to try with me.... I feel totally lost. I don't want to get my children and my hopes up and find it was all a lie and end up hurting our children and myself. Can someone out there offer some advice??
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (13 February 2007):
First off, say to him that if theres anything going on between him and this ex wife, or if hes planning to get back with her. Then tell you now, because he will only break his kids hearts if he gets there hopes up. But, you have to remember that she is his ex, and you have been married to him for 7 years. If you want him back, TELL HIM. Tell him to come over and you can spend some time together. There may be nothing going on with him and his ex, but if there is, he needs to know that its better for you to find out now.
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