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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupidMy husband of 3 years think we should live separate houses. Long story short, he is not into marriage. We got married 3 years ago because I was about to leave for my country(came here for studies) and since he wanted to be with me, we married. I love him but not sure if he ever loved me. Now he wants to live separately because he thinks I am invading his space, though I give him enough space, don't bother him at all when he wants space. He wants to do vacation alone, do not want to visit my parents ( never met them , due to covid unable to visit past 2 years)I don't know what to do, I know I love him and he does not. He said he does have what anyone wants , he cannot love anyone....Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2022): Let him go. Its not worth it. Its his way of saying he wants to be free.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 May 2022):
 Just end it and move on.
Why would you try and be with someone if he obviously doesn't want to be with you?
Doesn't sound like he adds much positivity to your life.
Decide if you want to live here as a SINGLE divorcee or move back home and be closer to family. Or even move to a 3rd country if you so want!
He wants to be single, let him.
You deserve a partner who wants to be with you, enjoys your company, wants to get to know your family and be part of your family, and you be part of his.
He is not into marriage - what a stupid thing to say. If he is your age, so age 36-40 he is a pretty immature person.
Move on. Live life, meet people who WANT you in your life.
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