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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband is not working right now. He just got a settlement from an accident(property damage). He hid this money and spent it all while I had to get loans and go to food pantries. This is not the first time he has lied or hid money. He has also cheated before and been physically violent in the past. He's been to counselling and has not been violent for some years now but the lying has started up again. I feel like these are boundaries you do not cross. I feel I should get divorced. I believe in trying to save a marriage but I feel like I'm the only one trying to fix things. Should I just give up and move on?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 July 2010):
Get a lawyer, get a divorce , get the best settlement you can, get a better life that you have with this guy.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (16 July 2010):
 The anon's have spoken, there is nothing more to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): The next time you tell this story it needs to start with:
"My Ex-Husband...."
Get the divorce... let him hide stuff from himself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): In my opinion he has no respect for you or your livelihood! And why should you have to put up with that? Plus if this is how things started before what's to stop him from becoming violent again? Im not telling you, you should absolutely get divorced but maybe it's time to rethink your life a little are you even happy?
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