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*onfusedwife
writes:People might find this question funny or stupid but I'll go ask anyway.How will you feel if you see your husband kissed another man... on lips. Will it occur to you that he's gay? I was disturbed and I confronted him about it and he said it's a joke.I love my husband, but lately his drinking habits is turning me off, we're starting to argue more often lately. I always wanted to be cuddled but he's not for it. We're starting NOT to have sex due other reasons, his addiction to video games, internet and our kids and of course his drinking habits... (or people might say "he's gay").Thanks.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hi babe, well i dont know ur husband but it depends what kiss it was.. to realy understand if it was a full-on-snog, a peck on the cheek/lips..etc..You realy need to sit him down and maybe have a talk with him about his habbits, he needs to pay more attention to you... to satisfy your needs.. If he is in anyway abusive when he is drinking (his habit) then leave him, he isnt worth it.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Well, I come from macho Latin America, and, among us, we never kiss a man in the lips. We may kiss our fathers, or our children, but never another man.
I know that things are different in other parts of the world, but, to me, the man might be gay. However, you would need to find this out if it is bothering you. Don't take my word for it.
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reader, scarlet_tears +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hum. This is a tricky one.My suggestion would be to believe it was a joke...this time.Try to rekindle the spirit that you had before. Maybe mke one night a week "your night", away from the children. Although coming from a large family myself, I understand this isn't always possible.Try to be more romantic with each other, and try to reignite your sex life.If this doesn't work, I would advise seeing a relationship counsellor if you think the problem is getting serious.As for the kissing other men thing, unless this happens again, I would say it was just a one-off. Men can be really quite strange, especially when they are bored or hving fun. If it happens again, confront him again.I hope this helped in some wayMegxx
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