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writes: It seems my husband isn't interested in my well-being. He is unloving to me, that is a sign that he is not caring about me. It is impossible for me to de-tach from this person while I'm living together because it seems I still love him. I don't believe I want to detach from him but get closer to him. I want him to love ME, listen to me, comfort me, touch me and do things with me. That isn't being emotional or crazy or anything like that ,is it? A relationship is based on a couple looking out for each other through good and bad times. Making the other person feel good about themselves is wonderful. If he is unable to care for me or love me, it is clear that he does not want to stay in this situation with me. I don't know if he.is depressed.....or whatever else. So it is hard to determine why he acts the way he does toward me. They want to me emotionally stroked. Sometimes it takes two, to keep the marriage going. However if it is just me trying to keep it going and he has given up, I can not live with him ,that way. I realized Im living a miserable life with him. I needed attention and love too. Everyone does. I think I need to divorce him!What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): I think you know the answer- you're not in a relationship... he's checked out, and likely isn't coming back. If you want to give him a last chance try counciling, but be prepared to listen to your councilor as they're likely to tell you to cut your looses... happened to me, and life is MUCH BETTER NOW!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009):
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I think in all honesty only you can answer that question. First I would confront him with his apparent lack of interest in you and then ask him if he is willing to discuss your relationship and find ways to share new things together. If all else fails,you could always go to RELATE
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