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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:By looking at phone bills I have seen that my husband has been calling and texting an old work colleague. He has never mentioned her to me. In the month of July alone he has sent her 38 text messages? I think this is very strange. I have looked back and he always gets rid of the itemized bills by ripping them up into tiny pieces. I have found one from Aug 08 and found that there are text messages being sent from then. Has this been going on for over a year? Do you think I should confront him about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Very suspicious. I think yes, you need to confront him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): yes - he is having an affair. the thing is he has hidden it for a year now. when you confront him he will tell you that you are mad, its all in your head. but you need to be strong and firm. you need to know what the hell is going on. also you have th number. call the competition and identify yourself. just be sweet, tell her that you have come across her number and just wanted to check the cost details (just fibb). but sickly sweet strike up a conversation with her. hear in her voice what you need to. you need to act fast nd decisively. or else your hb will downplay his roughish ways and blame you for blowing this way out of proportion. however you get the details, just get it. do not be one of the frightened little wives that doesn't confront her cheating man. let him know that you will not stand for this anymore. give him no alternative.
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