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writes:I am 51yrs my husband is 45yrs, I have a son from my prev marriage. My husband is a Christian, I am a free thinker.My husband is having a affair with a Malay girl age 26 yrs, I found out, he says sorry to me and swear not to see her again. One month pass he see her and I found again and again, I am very sad and I thought of commit sucide and I could't sleep everyday thinking of leaving this world. I give him another chance he apolize again, but three months pass, he sees this girl again, of course I will get sad, hurt, angry everyday I think again and again until my health is bad to worst, I go for body check up, doctor say my two breast might have cancer my throat have seeds and have high blood pressure, so doctor ask me to wait for three month because breast fibroid is too small. I tell everthing to my husband he just say it just a small proplem. I don’t know what type of husband I have, he did'nt even take to me see another doctor, and never give me money for expenses, my husband got gambling habit. Please help me and how come he is like this and when he was small he alreadly baptist, how come a Christian can be like this?But now this girl is disturbing me, call me SMS to me sending rude words, I show my husband he just keep quiet. I did ask for divoice, but he don't want. I feel that he is torturing me. Recently another different women calling me again asking for my email address, but I ask who you are, she just say I have a lot of intersting thing to let you see.Please please help me, I feel like dieing. Many thanks, my English is very poor because I study up to primary, best regards.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 I think that you should divorce him. You are online now, look up information about divorce and what the laws are concerning where you live.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): You are amazing. You are putting yourself out there right now for everyone.. spilling your heart out to all to see and judge.
I don't feel comfortable discussing serious problems like this that pry so deeply into your personal life. Feel free to privately mail me or any of our top augony aunts that you see on that list.
Looks like you need someone to talk to more than just one-time advice.
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