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writes:my husband and i have been married for 5 years,and he says he loves me but he don't care for sex too much is there a problem with that? and also when we have sex he cums to quick then he gets mad because he can't give me what i want. please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): I'm in a simular situation, I'm 22 just married April 13th. My husband almost always finishes before I do. It can be frusterating but I've been doing some research today. Maybe try talking about it, the stress of him not being able to satisfy you may actually be what is causeing this disstress. Or there are a few techniques that can be practiced or a few postions that may help. I'm lucky because even though he finishes before me he still brings me to climax other ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): He has premature Ejaculation the only way your going to cure that is by getting him some vigra i had to with my husband
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (26 July 2007):
 There are some who just don't care for sex and can take it or leave it.
My dad was that sort of person. He and my mother loved each other dearly (We lost him in 2001) but it seemed that sex was too much of a bother to him. My mother says she at first thought there was something wrong with the way she was with him or that maybe he was cheating on her etc. but after awhile she figured out that it was just the way my dad was.
In your case it could be bad feelings on his part that he cannot perform for you as he feels he should.
You might try some of the things that are commercially available at your local drug store such as "Prolong" or something comparable that contains Benzocain.
Topically applied, the Benzocain slightly de-sensitizes the penis allowing for longer contact without removing all sensation.
Premature ejaculation is a far more common problem than most people realize.
There could be other reasons for this problem and I am reasonably sure there are. However, this should provide a means to get around the problem at least for now, and hopefully he will be able to feel better about the sexual part of your relationship. I sincerly hope this helps. Doc.
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