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female
age
41-50,
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writes:Every time my husband's family comes home he don't know when to come home, all he do is drink with them and forget all about his family, then curses me out when he gets upset, I want my marrage to work, and we have been doing so good, its like if we were far away from here we would be doing better than we have, I have prayed so hard and I have asked god to please help my husband to be the man that he is supposed to be but its like one thing can set us back cause he aint man enough to say NO!!!! Right now I'm tired, stressed out, drained I don't know what to do, we have gone to see the marrage counselor and it was working but it all leads back to him telling these people No!!!!! what am I to do? I feel so alone and that nobody really cares. Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 Hi,
Totally get you cos my dad was like that too in the beginning. I remember he used to go out drinking and late nites only when they are around, smokes a lot around them which made us ill and he gave them money even though we were struggling financially and it always sets my mum off. Anyway my mum kept talking although she felt he was listening he was and in the end some of them let him down in several ways and we also moved away which helped the whole situation.
From experiencing myself, my advise would be to continue telling him how concerned you are about him especially his drinking when he goes out with friends/family.
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