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writes:Hi i really need help, my hubby saw the other 2 postings and in one of them i confess me and my brother in law making love and me being his danzel in distress, he knew of course i confessed, but he didnt know that i was still thinking about him, thanks to one person that replied to posting that helped me realize that all i want is my hubby, but he read the posting and now i feel my life is over just when i was about to get my brother in law out of thoughts heart and mind, please help me im so worried i tell him i love him but due to the posting he dosent believe me no more he means so much to me please i dont know what to do anymore Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Sorry sounds bad...but the more you panic the more you fuel the feeling of him been wronged. Stay calm and accept the situation even say you don't blame him for leaving. This will then make him think more rather than act rash from hurt feelings. Try and explain you understand that it is DECIET that is wrong not so much the physical act. It is his trust you have destroyed. Try and think that if you are both meant to stay together you will, if not then new chapters will begin. I do hope things go well. Good luck.
Try and turn the physical side into a kinky part of your sex life...who knows! it may turn him on.
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reader, treats +, writes (5 November 2008):
this is going to suck if I tell you this but if he doesn't forgive you then it's all your fault and you have to move on with your life. You have to live with that mistake for the rest of your life and your going to learn your lesson for the next man that comes into your life. But don't give up that easily. Go back to him and show him your love.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Try showing him this posting. Or write him a hand written letter, Tell him you know he's the one for you and you don't want anyone else.Your going to have to tell him how much you love him.If he is still getting over what has happened this could be something of a last straw.Talk to him tonight, I hope you can sort it all out.
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