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writes: About 6 months ago I heard rumours that my housemate/best friend had gotten off with this girl I really liked. I work with this girl and we always flirted and spent lots of time together. My housemate knew exactly how much I liked her and how much heartache I went through with her.When I confronted them both with the rumours they denied them totally and said that nothing happened between them at all. With no actual evidence I had no choice but to believe them and apologise for the accusation. I continued to see this girl and we got even closer but she would occasionally bring up the rumours and make me feel guilty for accusing her.Just a few days ago I finally heard from a good friend that he had actually seen them kissing that night. Furious, I confronted my housemate again and he finally admitted that he had actually slept with her!I feel so betrayed, hurt and above all angry. I was taking it slow with her because I really liked her and wanted it to be special. Meanwhile my housemate got drunk and slept with her when he barely knew her or even liked her. The most hurtful part is that they let me go on believing for 6 months that nothing had happened.I feel so bad it makes me feel sick, I havent eaten a thing since I found out. I spoke to the girl and she said 'wotever! I dont really care'. And now I still have to live with my housemate and work with this girl. What can I do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006): Wow, what a dishonorable bastard! Well... From the looks of it, it seems you are unwilling to do more than just vent anyway.
If it was up to me, I would have moved, then just stop interacting with the girl, and never talk with my former housemate ever again.
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