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writes:Long story short, I worked with a a young woman for about two years. During that time we fell in love, or maybe just I did. During the time we worked together we would talk online at nights, text each other throughout the day and even a few times a week go out for dinner. She was at times very closed about her personal life but kept telling me how I was the only one she loves, because I took care of her and listened to her, and then I found out she was married. Our relationship got closer thru time and then I found out she had also sleeped with both of our boss. We broke it off but then she begged me to be with her again, and I did. I felt the job, she did to and then she filed for divorce. The day she left her husband she called me to tell me that night and I have never heard from her again. I texted her, called her and even emailed her and got let more then "i am ok" as a response. My heart is broken at the very lest I thought we would be friends. Now I don't know what to do???
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 If you work together, can you not speak to her there if she refuses to answer your txt or calls?
You do deserve to be told the truth. But if she has decided to give the marriage another go, then why would she want to stay friends? Thats not giving her marriage a proper go, staying on friendly terms with the guy she was having an affair with.
Or maybe she just isn't that into you and if she isn't back with him, wants to leave you 2 in the past.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Is there a chance or possibilty that she did not leave her husband, but maybe decide to give her marriage another chance; Ever considered that might be the reason she is avoiding all contact;
I suggest you treasure the memories; learn from the experience and MOVE ON.
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