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writes:This bloke I've been seeing for about 8-9 weeks has recently moved into his new house and been there for about 2 weeks now. Before he moved he was perfect and always wanting to see me and take me out. Now however he says he busy all the time with his house and makes no time to see me at all. I've given him so many opportunities to tell me if he wants to stop seeing me but he says he's just busy at the min. Yet again tonight he was meant to see me but rang and said he has things to do. I've asked him if he really wants anything to happen with us and he says yes. he's just busy with the house and tired from work at the min.Do you think it's true or has he just lost interest with me? If so, why hasn't he told me? He knows he can be honest with me! Plz help; it's really getting me down! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): Moving into a new house - and he has only been there two weeks - DOES involve a lot of work, unpacking at the very least, and more if he has to have repairs done.
You say you have asked him whether he wants to continue seeing you, and he has told you he does, but that he is busy with his new house and tired from work. I think you have to assume (UNLESS and UNTIL you have solid evidence - not just your own fears, mind!) that he means what he says.
You might want to offer to help him with some of the work he is doing at the house, but otherwise I'd say leave it for a while and see what happens.....try not to worry so much.
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