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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hay guys i have a problem my fella is in the navy and is on tour of the gulf at the moment, he used to call me 3 times a week email everyday long emails telling me he cares about me. we had so many plans for when he comes back in november! but now i get maybe 1 call every 2 weeks and 1 email a week, and its 3 lines long he says he loves me but i feel as if hes drifting away from me this happens every couple of weeks then i tell him and he makes an effort to call then it goes back to no calls for ages. but he calls his mum every other day and emails her. i put a deposit on a house as we were ment to move intogether but now he says he feels bad for me as ill be in the house alone 5 days a week as he only get weekends off when hes at home.am i loosing him? i just dont no what to do? me and his mum hate each other and she feels he should be with another girl that is her friend daughter i feel like im not gonna win this but i dont want to let go i love him so much!thank you and any advice would be appicated.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (19 April 2007):
 Hun, I think hes just busy. Just because hes not contacting you doesnt mean he doesnt want to. Hes got a job to do and its hard for you to see it when sat at home missing him I know.
As you have said he steps it up when you mention it, of course he makes the effort, hes worried he might lose you too, so he does what makes you happy. Then he gets busy and he doesnt always have the time. At least you are still in contact and able to speak to one another. Many cant.
Your worrying to much, relax take it easy, he still cares, he just might not have much to say or hes busy, doesnt mean hes not missing you, guys are just more practical than us girlies!
Take care x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): He does still luv u nd u r NOT losing him!
The most simple reason 4 this is that he simply doesn't have much 2 say!So u may b over reacting a little.
hope this helps!x
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